Hi, i'm a single parent of a 10 year old boy who has ASD. He's currently in mainstream with an EHCP plan and one to one support. I'm finding it hard to make a decision on a secondary school for him. I have one in mind but i'm still so unsure of what the future holds for him and us. Most of the secondary schools in my area have outstanding ofsteds and all cater for special needs. I currently work part time in a very unsocial hours job which I can't change so childcare is/has been difficult. I am trying to envisage the future of when he is a bit older and how he is going to cope going to school when i'm at work. He wouldn't be able to walk to school on his own because the one in mind is too far away from my house. I very much doubt he would be entitled to free transport. I don't even know if he will be capable of travelling to school on his own if I can't find anyone to help. I'm getting very stressed thinking about the lack of childcare options for him, whether he will cope at the school i'm thinking of and just that 'big unknown' of the future with it all.
I currently have a couple of other mums from the school helping me out with after school at the moment, but the whole arrangement feels so insecure as i've been let down a few times. There don't seem to be any childminders in the area with availability. Family aren't around to help and his dad lives in another county so he's out of the question as well. I'm so struggling with all these thoughts and decisions on my own, when I don't know how DS will cope with any of it. Can anyone offer any words of advice? TIA
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IndependentMum · 11/09/2017 14:05
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