DS has just turned 7. He has currently been in bed for an hour and a half trying to get to sleep and all i can hear is him humming to himself every 5-10 seconds.
I hadn't really thought about it before but he does have some asd traits. His school have never mentioned anything to me as he is very bright, he has just had sats results of greater depth at reading and maths and expected for writing. The last year or so though his teachers have been saying he is distracting others by talking too much, but when I ask him he says he can't hold it in and he has to say it or he will burst!
He has always had an obsession with cars, he can look at a logo and tell you the car make. He used to line them up and when he was a toddler would lie on the floor just rolling them back and forward. If he was to draw a picture of anything, there would always be a car too! He knows the car make of all his classmates (as well as all of their birthdays too) and will describe his friends using their car rather than themselves.
He used to have an obsession with flags and maps, when he was 4 he could tell you the flag of any country but I don't think he remembers half of them now.
He has always had poor fine motor skills, he couldn't hold a pencil when he started reception class.
He takes things VERY literally and you cannot ever have a joke with him, although he does have his own little weird sense of humour.
He has started having massive meltdowns, always on the way home from school and always much worse on a Tuesday (which is P.E day). He will last out and sometimes hit others with these, but will calm down after 10-15 mins. He has only had one during the summer holidays so far though. He has started lashing out at his younger sister, most recently because she dared to go near his lego he had been playing with for 2 hours.
As soon as the clock says 12pm he has to have lunch. And it absolutely cannot be a hot meal, always a sandwich. Likewise he would never see cold food as an evening meal.
He has started explaining to me that certain lego colours can't go next to each other. He has a electronic tablet, all of his apps are sorted into certain categories and are lined up very neatly.
He recently had £51 in birthday money, and he had to give away the £1 because he couldn't stand the money not being an even number.
There is so much more I will run out of room. He doesn't have a close group of friends at school, tells me he plays alone a lot but his teacher said he is popular with all of the class. He does have some nice friends on our street so I know he plays with others well.
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ShinyTamatoa · 11/08/2017 21:56
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