I'm probably really overthinking this but would appreciate any help or advice.
DS is 8, very bright, loves school and academically is doing very well. He is very good at maths, has a really good general knowledge and most of the time comes across as being confident and happy.
But school are getting increasingly worried about his emotional reactions to things that don't go according to plan. He had always been emotional and cries easily but it was always suggested that he would grow out of it. He struggles with sudden changes to routines, can't cope at all with perceived unfairness and gets very upset when people 'break the rules'. It seems now that it's not just the crying, it's angry outbursts and shouting. Often it seems that he has an idea in his head around how a situation will play out and if it doesn't go that way he finds it very difficult and gets upset.
He seems to have high expectations and school say that he seems anxious when he doesn't achieve what he thinks he should. I should add that we're not pushy with him, we don't expect him to be top or to win and we consciously don't compare him with others.
He has friends but can be a loner and doesn't seem to have the same social interaction that I see between his school friends. His teacher has commented that he is well liked but that others don't always 'get' him. He is particularly clumsy and doesn't cope well when he gets hurt.
I have read about ASD and Aspergers (in the back of my mind I have always wondered whether he is different in some way) and whilst I don't think he has all of the symptoms but he does seem to display some of the indicators of Aspergers. Is this possible? Am I overreacting? And I guess the main question is what should I do next? I want to help but I'm at a loss to know how to help him. He needs some sort of coping strategy but what?
(Please be kind, I posted years ago about him and got told to tell him to 'man up' and that he would end up with no friends if he carried on bursting into tears when things didn't go his way.)
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