He has just turned 4. Nursery expressed concerns so I made an appointment with the GP who said it was a "parenting issue". So went to our (lovely) HV who has done 2 assessments, one on educational development and one on social and emotional skills. He scored considerably ahead on the first, and very behind on the second.
So he is being referred. The HV has mentioned Social Communication Disorder, pathological demand avoidance and high functioning autism. She also said it could purely be down to having had a really stressful year last year (death of family dog which DS didn't take well, death of my MIL which DS just hasn't processed at all, me very ill with hyperemesis, birth of his baby sister a little premature, plus Dh had a really rough patch after his mum died). It's a lot for an adult to process, never mind a little boy.
So I guess now I wait. I'm really struggling with behaviour and dont know if I should start researching things like HFA and try some new techniques now, or hang fire.
I'm a bit all over the place tbh. To make matters worse my parents "don't believe in autism" so I'm getting zero support from them.
Any advice?
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