I've posted about DD, now 1, before. She has hearing loss, at first it was thought the loss was due to glue ear, but the glue ear has cleared up and the hearing loss is still there. We're having audiology tests to determine the extent of it, but looks like moderate sensorineural loss. She doesn't respond to our voices, but she's so smart and communicative non-verbally. She has a hearing aid on a soft band, although the audiologist isn't sure it's at the right level, and I haven't really noticed a difference when she's wearing it. I find it hard to keep on her also.
I just feel so lost. I feel really sad when her baby friends are saying mama, dada, etc, and she's not babbling at all. I'm going back to work on Monday PT and she's going to nursery two days a week. She hasn't really settled there and I feel like she's quite isolated with her deafness, and overlooked because she doesn't respond to voices.
We don't need the money from my job, but if I don't go back to work now it'll be really hard to get back to work in the future IYSWIM. I just want to help her and I feel guilty going back to work when maybe I could be looking after her and trying to get her caught up... but I don't even know what to do to help! I suppose I won't until they've done more tests. It's just such a slow and frustrating process!
I'm probably having a bit of a delayed reaction to the news that the deafness is permanent. But any advice? Should I be pushing harder with the audiologist, or going private?
Thanks
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DD is deaf and I'm lost
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