Hi all,
Our DD (5) is being assessed for ASD. We have huge problems with her getting ready to go out, whether it be school, swimming lesson on Sat morning, out for the day. She just won't get ready! Lots of tantrums, v "busy" into everything, getting everything out and making mess, shouting, aggression, trears. After lots of stress, she'll the. Get ready at v v last min, literally minutes before we are due to leave. We've tried rewards but doesn't seem to have an impact and worked for about a week. We've tried changing where she gets dressed. Worse thing is going in bathroom and when she eventually does, she may plant herself on toilet for up to 25 minutes.
We have to be up at 6:30 in order for her to be ready for 8:10 for school everyday and even that is a struggle. We may have to get up slightly earlier.
She is fine having breakfast, it is the getting ready in bathroom and dressed. After that she seems okay (by her standards) seems happy but must have a level of anxiety as she struggles with Selective Mutism around family, friends and school.
Any tips greatly appreciated please!
Also, any others experience this with their children, diagnosed with ASD? Is it trait of PDA? Just anxiety related?
She is v "busy" at times like this, will rummage through drawers, toys, get tiny objects out, marbles, stones (which she loves and kind of collects). She won't concentrate on getting ready at times like this and we have to remind her it's not time to play, she can play again later. Our house is so messy when she's like this. She's in to everything! Before social events in past, she will rummage through kitchen drawer to find any loose change and get all the coins out she can find and play with them - this is when we are trying to get out the front door!! Is this a security thing, ADHD/ADD/ASD behaviour I wonder?
Thanks all. Apologies for long post! Xx
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