My ds who is 5 has a speech delay and selective mutism.
I have posted before about problems with the school last year re keeping him back in reception but after much hassling from myself he is now in year 1.
He settled in really well but concerned that because he does'nt talk he is just being forgotton about and he has no one on one help in the class to address his problems.
We had a time just after christmas where he was upset to go into school and I rightly or wrongly kept him off school on those days his anxiety was high.
Now this Wednesday a meeting has been arranged at the school .The letter from the headmistress just said to discuss supporting ds more at school and at home.
No mention about who would be at the meeting.
Today the receptionist at the school rang to check if me and dh were attending and it was ony by chance I asked who else was coming to the meeting.
She said ds's paediatrician ,an educational psyhcologist,the schools SENCO,a SALT,2 people from family solutions who are assessing ds at the moment at home with regards to his toileting problems and anxiety and his class teacher.
Also I was told possibly someone from school attendance and ds had missed some time from school.
Is this normal for so many people to be involved?
Or is it just my paranoia and a case of getting everyone together at the same time to save resources.
I feel so over whealmed by it all and now Iam going to be open for some awkward questions as far as his attendance and my failure to have moved foward with his toileting fear.
I assume they will talk about stamenting as the school has no funds to ge ds one on one help he needs ,not sure if thats the way forward and if i want to put ds through all the interviews and assesments he will have to have.
Am just totally apprehensive about the whole thing and just hope Ican keep it together and not start crying like I normally do when discussing ds,as i may come across as a neurotic mother.
Also concerned about why someone fron attendance will be there and what they will say.
He is 5 fgs ,he's hardly traunting.
On the positive side it's great that all these professinals are getting together to help ds.
But I can't help worrying thinking why though?
Am I bad mother Ineed all this help to help my son?
Anyone else had this amount of involvement concerning their child and the school?
Would be gratful for any advice.
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tiptoes · 29/01/2007 23:11
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