My mother tongue is spanish and DH's is english.
When DS was born, DH and I really wanted DS to learn both our languages, so I spoke to him in spanish while DS spoke to him in english.
When DS was diagnosed (he is delayed in all areas of development) I was adviced to choose one language to comunicate with him, it would be too much for him to cope with two languages. They told us that once he learned how to speak and learned one language, we could introduce a second one. So now we speak to him in english and his level of understanding is really not bad.
My problem is that I am expecting a second baby (due in about a month). And I just cannot decide what is best, so I speak to him/her in spanish? Or do I speak to him/her in english? It will be strange talking to DS in english and to the second baby in a different language, but at the same time I want my second baby to learn my leanguage.
Has anyone had a similar experience? Please let me know your opinions...
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gracej · 24/01/2007 18:21
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