After getting lost in the system and failing to get anywhere with a GP referral we finally met with someone via the school referral - first requested in Autumn. They've agreed to refer with concerns about attention/impulsivity but a little on social skills - there was some prodding in the ASD direction but I'd be surprised if that was the case.
DD is six and just finishing year one. She is mostly happy and is at expected levels at school and apparently did very well at the recent phonics screening which was a surprise. We have sleep issues, lack of impulse control, fairly regular tantrums plus lack of focus - the latter is a worry with school as she may fall behind, especially on writing which needs more careful concentration. My biggest concern is how teachers etc may react to her behaviour - she's not often deliberately naughty but I'm aware adults at school may give her a harsh telling off and that can knock her confidence over time.
The referral will take nine months and we won't have any access to support in the meantime, although school will be able to engage with the people we spoke to for advice. There are no parenting classes as offered in our neighbouring borough where our GP is based.
Is it worth looking at trying to get a private referral, would it be worth it and how do we go about getting a private diagnosis? The council staff warned that the diagnosis may not result in much change but may offer a bit of protection and understanding from school staff etc. We are on our own with this and have little clue as to the process and what options we would have. Any advice would be great as its been a nightmare to navigate so far.
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