I just got this letter, informing me that DS's attendance has dropped below 93% & that is a cause for concern. My DS, 5 & in reception,has ASD & has had every bug going these last few terms. He has always been prone to tummy bugs, temperatures & the last week he has spent in bed asleep, rarely eating a bite. I don't have a car, so don't think it is worth upsetting my sick, highly sensitive son to drag him & DS 3 to the doctors & back ( waiting for bus in cold etc..) Is this what I should do every time my son has a tummy bug ? I have apologised to his teachers about his attendance, but have explained that I am not allowed to send him in with a tummy bug... The letter said I should have sent a note in upon my son's return to school, but school have not told me this. I will be doing that in future. The last time I called the docs, they were filled up by 8.45 am & I would've had to have gone to next town's drop in center... I feel like a terrible mum, now...My son is waiting to be diagnosed ( private SALT's report in the interim has confirmed he has Social communication disorder) & I wonder would the attendance officer be more understanding of my son's absence, if he knew this. I should add that when my son is ill, I read with him & try to keep up with his learning,as much as he feels up to it. He reads very well( he read 'Beauty & the beast' last night, cover to cover, identifying each punctuation mark !!), can breeze through his 1- 12 times tables & is ploughing is way through a Key stage 1 cd rom, so his school work is not suffering. Should I phone this chap & voice my concerns, or just be more vigilant with making docs appointments, when DS is poorly ?
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Missisdoyle · 22/03/2016 10:31
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