For the past year we have been struggling with DD's behaviour - it has got worse this school year (Y3) and now we are at the point where she is having daily, sometimes twice daily meltdowns at home. This can be triggered by tiny things - e.g. an instruction to get dressed in the morning. She will rant and rage, become very distressed, lash out verbally and physically. She also hits and kicks herself.
It is horrible to see and we have tried different behaviour strategies but nothing seems to be working.
She is not very comfortable in her friendship group at school which has become toxic. She has no friends outside of school and is very reluctant to do clubs/activities due to severe separation anxiety - she will go swimming but if DH moves from the poolside so she can't seem him, she becomes hysterical in the pool.
She finds after school club extremely stressful/distressing also and I have decided to pull her out from after the Easter holidays.
At the moment we are in discussion with the school who are doing pastoral workshops with her social group and she has also had a one to one session. Am at a loss as to what else to try. We also have a CAMHS referral pending with GP due to some of her language (threatening to kill herself).
Posted about DD's behaviour on another thread and had a lot of replies saying it sounded like she had Aspergers. OTOH she is well-coordinated, not dyspraxic, has no issues with school work/reading, and is able to deal with some social situations.
Is it worth pursuing an assessment? Am very concerned an EP who observed her in school would not pick up on anything. All her difficult behaviour is at home, so other than the fact that she gets upset at school when the whole class are told off and she wasn't doing anything, there are no symptoms as such visible in school.
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DD (8yo) having huge meltdowns at home - could this be Aspergers?
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runningLou · 14/03/2016 09:36
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