Dropped DS (6) off this morning and his teacher told she needs me to go in (but couldn't say when!) as DS has had a terrible few days and has been 'intimidating' and making the other children cry.
This was infront of all the other mums in the waiting queue as well - just to make me feel even more crap.
She said DS told her he hates school and just wants to be at home - well that's true, he does!
His diagnoses is HFA (would have been Aspergers previously).
We've been waiting for a county assessment since last term to see what support the school can access for him socially (it's playtimes he really really struggles with).
The other children often get hurt by him and I already feel like all the other parents dislike their children playing with him
School allow him to go I the library with a buddy at lunch, which he likes, but feel he needs to fresh air for the other playtimes but as yet (and this probably won't change) no funding to give him any 1:1 support at these times.
He hates playtime, hates fighting although that's always what ends up happening.
Not really sure what advice anyone can give, I'll have to just see what they say that the meeting (he has an action plan but no IEP although these are gone now anyway).
I just hate feeling like I do now - crap and helpless because I'm not there when it happens and I wish I could just protect him from it all
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