ds2 hates school . its hard to even make him go . i have had meeting after meeting and its taken forever to even get him an iep.
i know he was diagnosed late but its still taken them 3 years.
i asked for hiim to be able to drop a subject or two , so that he will be able to focus better on fewer subjects as hes now in year 10 and year 11 is not going to work otherwise. i just know its not.
some of his teachers have asked for help as they do not know how to get him to do his work .
i have just had an email to tell me that they cant reduce his timetable as he hasnt got a statement. ive been told he wouldnt get a statement and to tbh i think they might be right . when the additional needs service observed him he was the model student time is running out.
i have been dealing with the senco recently , she said i had to go to the head about a reduced timetable . The reply that has come back has just made me want to cry as the things said show how much they just don't 'get it' and it suggests i make an appointment with yet another person , his head of learning this time to discuss a furthur support package . too many different people all the time who dont have a clue .
this support package sounds like a crock of shit , positive steps report process apparently , overseen by this head of learning . except its just an official version of whats been done here and there for the last 3 years . and ds2 goes worse with that approach .
ds2 will not do any work at home , i have given up ,as it leads to total meltdown which is why i wanted him to free up time in school to do it . The email suggests (again) that he do his work at the after school club . he will no more stay on at school as fly to the bloody moon . Going 9 until 3:30pm has proved too much . i have told the senco this . i have told everybody this. i have spent 3 years phoning in explaining he wont attend that day .
he doesnt want to learn , he hates it and they say in the email 'of course the commitment of the student is crucial to their own success'
sorry this is so rambly and crazy but i am well all rambly and crazy right now . i have had enough of all these different people making it sound like there is help and support when its all a load of crap . i may as well just let him stay at home and play xbox
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