Today ds ran in front of a car just outside school. This is the 2nd time in just a few days. He had been quite good about crossing the road as they were teaching it at nursery. However recently he has seemed to have forgotten everything. Last week he had crossed the road to the car and crossed back again when he saw another child. The car he ran in front of was quite far away but today he was really close although fortunately the car was going really slowly. I could see the driver looking around as if to say ?where is the parent?? The problem is that I am pushing dd in the pram and ds always runs ahead (refuses to hold my hand). All the schoolkids and other nursery kids are opening the front gate and he just squeezes past them into the street. The first thing he does is look for the car and because one is not allowed to park directly outside the school he always has to cross the road. He is fine when he gets to the car and just waits but I am thinking he is an accident waiting to happen if a car driving fast is going by.
I mentioned this to the psychologist way back in Oct and asked her if I could use the staff car park as it is right next to the nursery at the back of the school. She felt that this wasn?t teaching him road safety and suggested at nursery he make something delicate to carry to the car (so he has to walk slowly) but he?s not really interested in carrying things like this and often hands them to me to hold. Parents aren?t allowed to use the car park as it is supposed to be dangerous with small kids running around but I feel this is ironic. I don?t know whether to get back to the psychologist, or approach the headteacher to see if they can make a special case or speak to someone else? He is registered disabled (autistic for those who don?t know) - physically is fine but I feel I have grounds to state that he is a danger to himself on mental grounds. As I am getting DLA should I be spending the money on an escort to help me with nursery, or should I ask social work to help. I don?t feel it is the school?s responsibility but it would make life easier if I can use their car park.
Any thoughts?
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Eulalia · 09/02/2004 18:13
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