DD has nothing diagnosed (although the GP says he will refer if nothing improves and it isn't improving) so I hope you don't mind me posting here.
She is 6, and in year one, but a mixed y 1 and 2 class. She only started there just before Easter, but she has had these problems forever.
She wets herself about three days a week, but on the days she has been wet it can be two times in one day, plus the night too.
I don't think she cares - she told me that the other children were complaining she smelled and that is why the teacher got her changed, but she wasn't embarrassed by it. She has never gone and got herself changed without lots of prompting and sometimes either doesn't notice or pretends not to notice at all that she is wet.
We've given a wee sample to the doctors, which must have come back clear. We've pushed fluids. We've made her try more often but tbh I don't think that helps her learn as she is just co incidentally getting the wee in the toilet, iyswim.
We've now told her that she is allowed to go to the toilet during class, if she asks the teacher first (it hadn't occured to me to specify, but quite often this needs doing) but again, she wets herself at home so it isn't all down to that.
Any ideas? Even if she doesn't care, surely she will care at some point, and even if not, her skin is sore :-( Plus obviously it isn't nice for people to clean up after her and so I can't really send her on playdates (if she had friends)
She is a fluent reader, and wants to be a doctor, so she is fairly good at following instructions, ao I'm thinking of writing her a story about how it is healthy to wee in the toilet.
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BrittaPie · 22/04/2013 01:25
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