DS2 was premature (30 weeks), Grade 3 IVHs leading to hydrocephalus and a VP shunt when he was 5 months.
Prematurity makes him a July baby rather than a September one so he starts school this year. Up until now I've been fine with this, but as he gets older I realise he's not growing out of some things I thought he would have by now.
A few examples: fear of hand dryers & hair dryers, upset if someone touches him unexpectedly eg ruffles his hair, dislike of hot/cold temperatures, loud, unexpected noises, small touches are a 'punch' or 'you hurt me', must take off his top if he spills something on it.
They don't sound like much (it definitely is all sensory) but I realise that I 'manage' him a lot (much more than I did my older two) and I think he is coaxed along a lot at nursery too.
I am worried that when he gets into reception, he won't have that and he will find the environment difficult.
We saw a paediatrician who said he has sensory immaturity. I took this to mean he would grow out of it.
Nursery say he is not where he should be, but they see it more as just his personality, that he doesn't like to conform and a general immaturity because he is at the younger end of the year.
How worried should I be about him starting reception and if you've been in a similar situation, what practical things can I do for him?
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How to keep this in perspective - DS2, sensory issues, reception?
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EyeoftheStorm · 19/04/2013 18:20
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