So I have finally received the Paed's report. At the appointment she seemed very clear indeed that dd2 will have an official diagnosis of ASD when her ADOS happens in ten (long) months' time. She herself said 'it's not so much about the diagnosis, more about the support' so why-oh-why-oh-why have I received yet another wet letter which is essentially neutral stating that 'the best way forward would be for formal assessment in multidisciplinary assessment clinic'. End of. In fairness the letter does state that dd2 has 'difficulties with social understanding, difficulties coping with change and appears to present differently between home and school [...oh there is so much else, Mrs P. D. Attrition which we discussed, and you agreed]'. But that is it.
If Paed had written what she said to me (that "we have enough for a diagnosis of Autism" and "you understand her very well") then the school indicated they would cement everything into an IEP and refer to Autism Advisory (I am under no illusions that Autism Advisory is nothing more than another box to tick btw) but now surely neither of these things will happen and we just have to keep on waiting and everyone will continue sitting on the fence and I will have to keep banging my head against a brick wall with SENCO. I know everyone is going to tell me (quite rightly) that 'IEPs and other interventions should be set up based on need rather than diagnosis blah blah blah' but SENCO indicated that it doesn't work that way with her because she is not that sure of the issues really.
Meh...... parents evening next week, SENCO has still failed to read with my dd2 AT ALL as planned over the last five weeks (was meant to be weekly) and with this limp lettuce leaf of a letter from Paed I feel like the terra firma under my feet has turned to quicksand.....
I feel my energy being sapped! Someone give me hope????!!!!!!!!!
Meh.... and more meh....
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