Hello,
I'm looking for some advice regarding my sons. My oldest is14 and currently being assessed by camhs for asd and adhd. I feel terribly guilty that I did not realise that his quirkiness and difficulties with school and friendship might come from a diagnosable condition and my expectations of his behaviour may have been unreasonably high.
My concern now however is my younger boys. I have suspected that my youngest (2years)is on the spectrum for a while; very independent, limited eye contact, gets distraught is someone touches him or sits too close when he does not want them too, lots of hand flapping and spinning around, scary tantrums and his speech is limited for his age. So because of these two I have been reading and trying to educate myself about asd. On doing this I have developed concerns about my three year old, he is so particular, gets terribly upset if things are done wrong, for example the toast leaning the wrong way in the toaster or food touching on his plate, everything has to be done in a certain way, plays alongside but not with other children.
I have an appointment booked with the GP in a couple of weeks for my 2 year old and I don't know what to do about my 3 year old. If I say that I want both boys assessed will I be dismissed as paranoid? Will asking for both make my fight harder? I think my youngest has the greater need but I am so scared of not addressing my three year olds. Basically should I approach the GP with my concerns about both boys at the same time or get the process moving with one before returning with my concerns about the other?
Thanks to anyone who read this, your advice will be truly appreciated.
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Fanon · 28/02/2013 09:23
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