Hello all
This is my first post here, although I have been lurking for a while and have taken some wonderful advice from the posts I have read.
My DS is 5.10, and received a diagnosis of autism in November 2012, which was done privately as we had been waiting over a year for any action from the NHS paediatric team. We first referred him via our GP in January 2010 due to concerns over his behaviour.
Since diagnosis we have spoken to the school, and DS is now on their SEN register/school action plus. He has an IEP and a home/ school book. These are all relatively recent so no progress yet.
His main difficulties lie in social interaction and impulse control. Reception year at school was ok-ish but Yr 1 has been TERRIBLE so far. He is continually hurting other children, mostly in the playground but occasionally in the classroom. I think he is trying to interact but does not know how to, and gets frustrated and loses control. There have been numerous complaints from parents about him, both to the CT and the HT. I work full time, so do not get to see the class teacher, but receive many phone calls from school regarding his behaviour.
I am going to see the HT today ? the head asked if I would come in as she has several meetings lined up over the next few days with parents about DS. I wondered what you would all advise me to say. Should she disclose his autism to these parents? Would this make them more understanding? What strategies would help with the playground issues? They have asked the lunchtime supervisors to keep a close eye on him. Is there anything else that you have seen work well?
We struggle with him at home as well, and he does hurt his younger brother, but I guess we keep close to him.
I am also still struggling to deal with the diagnosis, and feel sad, depressed and devastated, which I know is selfish but I cannot seem to shake myself out of it. I feel dreadful about him hurting other children. I know I should ignore the other parents as they do not understand, but I am finding that difficult as well. He has no friends and never gets invited to parties, and it all makes me sad for him and scared for his future.
Sorry this is a depressing post! Any advice gratefully received.
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