Im struggling - today i feel like its us against the world and the prospect of losing sends me in a deep spiral of worry.
now have to face the LA across the table on friday and try and agree the working document - its me dh against two sen officers and their solcitor. theri solicitor made it clear that they LA will nver agree to our school placement - granted its 70k as its independent school against there 20k mainstream school.
please reassure me that a child who has been out of school since june due to high anxiety etc and clearly can no longer cope with the mainstream who has reports that say he needs small classroom sizes etc and has been in 4 mainstream schools already isnt going to be sent to another mainstream school twice the size of his current school. i knwo the head of the mainstream school LA trying to name will just tell the tribunal she can give joe every single thing she thinks the tribunal wants to hear.
my stress levels today have reached sky high and i just dont know if ic an do this but what alternative do i have?? i have to prove that NO mainstream school is suitable for him - do i have evidence - i hope i do but is it good enough for the tribunal - what if i say the wrong thing on the day, they ahve a barrister so i know they are going to go on the unreasonable use of resources, what if he does run rings round me, what if my witnesses say the wrong things - im just full of dread and self doubt today and feel physicaly sick - i have lost 4 and half stone since this started.
can i really win this? are the odds in my favour?
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bjkmummy · 30/01/2013 16:31
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