Work colleague frequently refers to people as retards/fucking retards etc.
Dsd has mild sen, even if this weren't close to home I would still find this really offensive.
Today the colleague became very aggressive verbally towards me and stated that they had a right to use the word retard as an insult because it means stupid. Apparently she has looked this word up and the dictionary says she is right and I am to shut up or she will say it even more. Her rant literally came out of nowhere, there was a normal conversation going on, she lost it completely, everyone was very shocked. She was screaming and being physically quite threatening. She made comments about my daughter during her rant.
I have spoken to my line manager before and asked them to do some general awareness type training as quite a few people were using the word retard as an insult in the office without really thinking about the meaning.
Hr agreed that it is not on, agreed that they would take any future disablist language seriously and act accordingly.
This person was on maternity leave at the time and didn't have the training. She has always been very unpopular in the office because she has form for being verbally very nasty to people with no provocation, she does have a pretty awful home life by the sounds of it so I don't know how much of this is down to that if you see what I mean.
I need your help to verbalise to my line manager just how awful this word is ( well to me anyway). I wanted to know if anyone can point me to some literature I can use ? My manager rang me this evening and said she was going to have a one to one with her about it but she was more concerned about her shouting in the office than what she was actually saying. What I find disturbing is that she has told some colleagues that she was planning a confrontation today to "teach me a lesson".
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Can anyone help me deal with this colleague please? Offensive comments.
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Brideandgloom · 27/11/2012 20:05
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