dd2 (3.2) has paed on monday we are getting nowhere hes full of broken promises. promises for referrals and assessments. getting nowhere. been in system since she was 9 months old due to failure to meet milestones. Now they are looking at possible HFA but we are getting NO help at all. She has started preschool and is very very anxious and stressed at home, she has a big wobble before going in and clings to me and gets very hot sweaty and often cries but once im gone they say she is ok although likes to be beside the teacher all the time and frequently asks where teacher is.
Anyway get to point we are having horrid time with her at home, screaming, hitting still not sleeping despite melatonin. NHS stressing me out with getting no help. Has anyone pulled their child from the system until they are over say 5 years old?? JUst thinking may be easier to sort any issues out on the nhs when she is over 5 as she wont come under the child development centre which seems to be a nightmare in our area. And if I need help before then I will have to go private with her.
I have OH coming to app with me and hes furious at lack of progress and has said he doesnt want her going anymore since its a waste of time and same old scenario at every app. So do we muddle along by ourselves and pay for any intervention we require in the meantime? NHS is stressing me more thn DD2 is!! Sorry for the rant im at the end of my tether
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has anyone pulled their child out NHS system until theyre bit older - terribly stressed
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Chundle · 10/10/2012 10:35
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