not a good night

[thriftychic]

ds2 been the model child for the last few weeks , had been thinking that our appointment at camhs tomorrow was unecessary, things were getting better blah blah blah until tonight .

ds2 has major flip outs , waiting for a second opinion from psychologist as to whether there is a diagnosis to be made . sometimes i am sure he has asd or adhd and some days i think hes just a badly behaved out of control teen.

he has been in trouble for upsetting a girl at school. he used a racist word , he said it wasnt about her , was talking to someone else about another person . school have said that because they dont really know if it was directly at her they wont exclude him just give a detention.

then , he hasnt been allowed to have dh password for something and has now flipped out .
school tie has been cut in half , dh is away with work driving hgv and ds2 has been phoning him telling him to crash and die
he is currently crashing and banging in his bedroom and causing mayhem. i am trying to stay out of the way whilst keeping an ear out guessing what hes doing . this could go on for a long while . has said he intends to make my night hell as he is angry .

the last time he threw the entire contents of his bedroom into the bins at the back of the house .
i feel and fed up of dealing with this on my own.

[thriftychic]

this is hideous, the few things i had left are now broken.

i have just spent ages trying to reason its pointless , now the self hate is starting and he wants to die.

i wish i had someone to come round and talk to me , stop him.
he says he cant go to school tomorrow . i am going to have this for days.
right now i have no idea what to do.

[Ineedalife]

Bless you thrifty, I wish I could think of something useful to say

What an awful situation for you to be in alone.

I agree that it is pointless trying to reason with him but you need him to stop wrecking your home.

I hope someone else comes along with some decent advice.

[thriftychic]

thankyou