Ds has asbergers. He is very high functioning and if you only see him for a short while, specially is I am present, you wouldn't realise.
He is highly verbal and very good at talking to adults.
I am really really struggling. It's do hard work, I feel like I am telling him off all the time, I wake up braced for the day. I am often stressed as soon as he starts speaking and realise that how stressed I am is affecting how I interact with him.
I feel like I am failing all the time, I should be enjoying him more, managing to teach him more etc. and then I feel really crap about myself and get into this really bad cycle about it all!
Not helped by everyone around me saying. Oh but he's so lovely. And ils who are determined to believe he is fine and doesn't need a 'label'!
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BumptiousandBustly · 01/10/2012 10:18
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