And did it help?
I'm asking because of concern for my DP's DS. He is 13, and just isn't the same as other children. Seems to be to have many of the signs of Aspergers or possibly Dyspraxia (though I'm judging by other kids I know of, I'm not an expert.
For example - very nerdy, talks only about topics he's interested in (computers) and switches off at all others, doesn't notice when he's boring people, very, very unco-ordinated (can't kick a ball), hypersensitive about texures (won't go barefoot, hates sand, hates certain foods), walks with a funny gait and holds one arm oddly, doesn't seem to have any friends, etc.
If he were my child, I'd be talking to the school, or maybe the GP to see if they could identify why. I know from what DP says that his DS's mum has concerns about him (he lives with her in the week, and with us at weekends) but when she expresses these concerns to DP, he perceives that she's "having a go at DS" and brushes them aside. DP is very close to his DS, and I think sees a lot of himself in him (though I disagree that DP ever had such degree of oddities about him). Is there anything I could do to encourage him to seek some help for him? What would make you seek help? And would it make a difference if he did have some diagnosis?
For information, he's at a private school, bright academically. The school claim he is well-liked, but this really doesn't fit with what I see of him interacting with others (no party invites or meet ups with friends in the past year, other kids noticing he's odd and commenting on it, his sister mocking that he has no friends, etc). The cynical part of me thinks the school would say that, wouldn't they, as they want your money. But DP takes it on face value and say if the school says he has friends, then he must be fine. Because his DS is bright, he doesn't see any problem with his lack of physical skills.
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