Ok, so to quickly update here.
DD is 11, just gone up to secondary school. un dx'd ASD, Dyslexia and language is significantly delayed. I am awaiting a decision on the LA assessing/statementing her.
She is really struggling with attending school, because of her anxieties as well as saying 'she can't cope' (which I think means all the added pressure and homework). She's also said she is finding the change between classrooms hard too. She is 'coping' in school but completely releases as soon as she leaves.
She has had alot of time off already so I asked the school for their help, in how I could get her in.
They have said there are 2 TA's in her lessons who take/follow her between lessons but they are for the statemented children, so really can't use them for a long term solution.
They have said there are 2 particular days that DD seems to be in - i'm presuming they think there's as pattern building??
They asked if I had tried to get her into school (of course I bloody have!!)
They have said that Education Welfare will be getting involved - i'm presuming this is a polite way of backing me into a corner.
I have told them of DD difficulties and impending assessments and they've not said there's anything to be put in place for her, based on these reports - they are giving her 1 hour per week, in a seperate class of 8, to do English & Maths.
Apparently there's nothing more they can do, especially until they get advice from all agencies involved.
I am lost and feel I have made a huge mistake in sending her there. They didn't seem clued up on DD particular difficulties and were not going to put anything in place to help DD go back into school- That's my job as their 'hands are tied'
I did suggest her going in part-time when she can cope, as it's better than nothing. They will think about it but it's not something they want to do as it's giving her the impression that she can choose!
I'm lost and don't know what to do or where to turn :(
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sweetteamum · 25/09/2012 14:43
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