DS 7 is waiting for ADOS although the paed agrees that he has AS/ASD.
When I read about the high % of our children that end up with MH problems it makes me feel sick to my stomach.
He is only 7, and he is telling me that he is scared all the time in school in case he does his work wrong and gets a yellow card.
There have been a couple of incidents with y6 boys tormenting him, his name rhymes with confused and they would follow him around chanting. That was sorted out but the same boys have started again this year with various torments. School have reprimanded them but a couple of days after it starts again. i wouldn't go as far as to say it's bullying any other child would most prob deal with it OK but he has really low self esteem so it does affect him. it isn't him telling about the other kids it is my dd who is also in y6.
He hates school and always has done since nursery, he has no friends in or out of school and walks around the playground alone.
He is in MS and soesn't get any additional support as he is coping atm or so school believe but I am worried it is all going to coming crashing down. i want to be proactive not reactive I asked for a homeschool diary last year, they reluctantly agreed but only filled it in three times from May-July and this year haven't sent it home at all. The EP recommended a quiet place for him when the sensory overload got to much but nothing was put in place. it was wet play last week, when I asked about his day he was able to tell me it was "grim" because it was wet play and the noise hurts him, plus he isn't getting a break form the sensory overload of the classroom. If i go in school i feel like they are going to have me down as an over anxious mum although my dd's have attended the school and I wasn't in all the time about them because they had no probs.
To hear my seven yr old telling me his is stressed and scared breaks my heart and if he is this anxious now what does the oncoming years hold.
p.s Also I think I have annoyed the HT. last winter work was being done on the playground. A skip wagon drove on to the playground and the dc were told to "move out of the way" ds panicked and ran straight in front of it (near miss) and was shouted at for being a silly boy. I went in and complained as to why they would allow it to be drove on the playground in icy weather when the dc were on the playground. HT apologised but when the questionnaires at the end of the year were sent out one of the Q's was rate how safe your child is in school. I commented about this incident. From what I have read on here they are ofsted questionnaires??.
I had to cross the playground this year and there were council vans parked on, HT was there and he said to me "don't worry the dc were in class when they drove on" It only dawned on me that this was related to the Q I had filled in later on.
Sorry for the length just had to get things off my chest.
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The weight of the world on his shoulders FFS he is only 7.
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