Shes nearly 4 years old, and has a dx of autism. The school holidays are causing no end of trouble and shes highly stressed and her behaviour is so much worse than normal.
Today was the biggest meltdown ever. We were at local musuem doing weaving in top room. She decided she wanted to pretend to be a cat (what she does when she is stress is pretend to be an animal), but the trouble is there wasnt a large amount of space and I couldnt have her crawling about the floor.
She went crazy and so I took her outside in the hall, and she just went crazy. She was hitting me, scratching me and screaming at me that she wanted me to "go away from me".
I just sat there and waited but everyone was staring and very Nomally I do just let her scream it out and leave her to calm down before trying to talk, but 95% of it is indoors. I never had to deal with this in a public space in such a small space, I didnt know what to do. It was made worse by the fact I had dd1 with me too who also has autism and was half way though her weaving when this kickied off but she was so good (luckly for me) but felt so sad for her too.
I picked dd2 up grabbed our stuff and dd1 and went into the large garden. DD2 ran off, laid on a bench and after 5 mins was calm enough to talk to.
So I guess Im just ranting but wondering if anyone has a hint or two.
Oh and I hate school holidays :(
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lisad123 · 10/08/2011 22:50
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