I have done something really bad this morning, which im sure now is only going to make the whole potty training even worse.
It started when I tried to change DS nappy, sometimes when I change his nappy I try to sit him on the potty to basically get him used to the idea of it, and make the association with wee and potty, this has been going ok in the past, with him doing a couple of wee's and even a few poo's.
Tried to put him on it earlier and he just basically screamed at me, I tried to reassure him telling him it was ok, and that he was a big boy, but he just got on the bed and screamed, so really I should have just put his nappy on, but no, I thought if I wait a bit he might change his mind, then he decides to do a big wee on my bed, I try to grab him and put him on the potty, before he finishes but he was just screaming and arching his back so then I just put him on the bed and screamed at him saying he could have used his potty.
Im so ashamed, I wasnt nice at all to him. So I closed the stairgate and went down stairs to calm down. I went back up 10 mins later, and just sat on the bed and cried, all the time DS was hitting me, and to be honest I let him cos I deserved it :(
So now, he is only going to make bad associations with his potty which is now going to take longer, Im due another baby in october, and basically cant afford to have 2 kids in nappies, as we recently had all out tax credits cut as we apparently earn too much (we are scraping by as it is)
He is 3 in a couple of months and it is stressing me out that he is still in nappies as I know younger kids who are potty trained. He has GDD and is about 7/8 months behind but seems to be doing realy well since he started nursery.
I dont know what to do.
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I've fucked up with potty training :(
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anon1110 · 24/07/2011 12:15
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