My DS, age 12 has ASD and ADHD. He has a statement since last year which includes SALT, OT etc. As we are approaching our first annual review, the specialists are sending reports to me.
One report starts well: "made progress", "responds well to intervention". Then it goes down hill: "can perform some of the skills in the therapy sessions due to context and controlled environment"... It goes on : "However, the school reports the following concerns: [ list of all the elements of being able to have a two way conversation like taking turns, being relevant, not dominating, basically showing he cannot perform those skills outside the therapy sessions]. "However, his impulsivity and limited self-awareness means he struggles to inhibit his own excited responses. He is now armed with the tools she requires in terms of raising awareness of his social skills. It is up to school to carry out reinforcing behaviours as and when required, e.g., to remind DS to be quiet where appropriate..."
Then it concludes: "Although DS social skills are not always appropriate, he knows what he should do in those situations... If DS decides that he wants to work on certain areas, his teaching assistants have the material to refer back to in order to support this. He will therefore be discharged at the end of the Summer Term. "
The school doesn't have an IEP for him. These specialist interventions are not integrated and not reinforced in school. I didn't even know what specialists were doing, it isn't documented. They make it sound like he doesn't want to behave, but obviously he can't. They didn't do anything yet to help this.
They say he learned "the theory" but in the same report they say that he cannot perform those skills in real life. When they'll stop the interventions, he will happily forget everything and we are back in square one... Where does it leave us? What to do?
I feel after those SENDISTS and endless negotiations with the LA I had something for DS in my hands. Now it?s all gone like sand
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Katastrofee · 10/06/2011 10:34
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