My 18 month boy shows all the signs for autism. We have had these concerns since he was 12 months when he was behind on his social milestones. Since then things have deteriorated. He flaps arms, little eye contact, never interacts with anyone, no waving, no gesturing, no words, tip toe walking sometimes and just plain expressionless. He also has uncontrollable tantrums where he thrashes himself around. It’s absolutely heartbreaking and I am not dealing with it well if I am honest. Particularly as he completely ignores his dad. He at least climbs on me, but that’s pretty much all the attention I get.
I am trying to seek help from everyone, Drs, nursery, HV but of course the answer is that he is to young. If I can see it surely a professional can.
Anyway Having read through some of these threads, as it seems this is the only place where people actually listen, I am surprised by how many people say that their children aren’t diagnosed until much later in life. I know it’s a spectrum and so they all come with different signs and symptoms, but I guess I am now questioning how autistic my child is. If he is showing every sign at a young age does this mean he is probably severely affected?
If people can go years before anything is picked up, are their symptoms less obvious and therefore less severe?
I am really struggling with accepting the concept of having an autistic child (some of the stories on here are reassuring) And I can’t help but feel devastated by it. 😩 how do people cope? X
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9911bon · 10/04/2020 15:27
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