I know this is probably going to start a riot, so please be gentle with me.
7mo DS has never been a great sleeper, although we did have a couple of months from about 3-5mo when he only woke up twice in the night for Bfeeds once he'd settled (which took about 45mins iirc). For the past couple of months, his sleeping has seemed to get gradually worse, and currently he seems to need 3 night feeds. He also wakes up 2 plus extra times when DH is able to rock him to sleep without me feeding him.
We are getting very tired. DS is teething at the mo, and our usually sunny baby has become very whingey particularly at the end of last week. I find that harder to cope with than the night-waking tbh. But DH and I are SO tired, and just keep disagreeing about what to do about it.
DH is now suggesting that we try controlled crying. I really, really don't feel like doing this, so have put in an order for the No-Cry Sleep Solution and the Sears Baby Sleep Book. I've also offered to try doing all the night wakings on nights when DH is going to be at home the next day. My position is that I think this is probably a phase that we just need to survive as best we can.
Anyways, my question is whether anybody knows whether controlled crying is even an option when the baby is still Bfeeding at night (I'd estimate that DS might be getting as much as half of his 24hr intake of milk at night at the mo, as he is so distractable during the day)? My limited understanding of the technique suggests that controlled crying would not be compatible with 3 proper night feeds (20-25mins of proper sucking). Does anybody know?
TIA.
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