My 15 month old DS is a terrible sleeper. We were co-sleeping but this was starting to affect my relationship, my DP was under the illusion that he'd be out of our room/bed by 6 months. When this didn't happen we compromised and DS has had his own cot in his own room for a month. I read Pantley, Sears, and Gordon to find the least painful way to do this.
This has been the longest month of my life!
I stopped bf'ing in the night and he coped with this ok. DP goes up first to settle him, and is sometimes able to settle him esp between 8 - 11, he always wakes at least once. Then after midnight DS goes completely berserk, he won't be calmed, sometimes he'll feed but he doesn't settle afterward and wakes as soon as we put him in his cot. He wants to sleep, but only on one of us. DP is getting to the point where he thinks there is something wrong with DS (he has two other children, share residence) but I'm telling him there are other babes like this.
I really don't understand CC, how does it work, it seems like we are doing this anyway as he criesm though we are in with him.
What on earth can I do? We feel like crap everyday, my husband almost drove off the road. I really don't want to go back down the co-sleeping road again though as it was getting to the point where he's so restless no one slept that way either
don't know if anyone can help and know there are lots of posts like this, but any advise/reassurance for us?
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MudMum · 30/09/2009 12:47
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