i have always wanted children even though i'm not that excited about the baby stage but now i am at ttc stage i really am genuinely and deeply worried about the sleep deprivation.
when i have really disturbed sleep my personality changes and i turn into the grumpiest monster on the planet (inbetween being the teariest) and there's no way i'd want to be married to me when i'm like that so i can't expect OH to live with it. after a longer period of disturbed sleep i also get utterly debilitating migraines during which i'm blind and confused and should not be in charge of myself nevermind a baby.
people laugh and tell you you'll never sleep again if you have a baby but for me it's a genuine worry and so far has put me off having the children i want to have.
I am worried i'll turn into an evil, snappy, shreiking nightmare and OH will leave me (understandably) or that i'll have a really bad migraine with the baby in the house and she/he'll come to some harm because i can't see or think properly
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fluffles · 04/08/2009 10:29
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