Dd is 7 months, she has never really slept. I know that it is normal, I know that it will happen one day but I am not coping.
I am ratty and horrible, I feel depressed, I have no patience with ds and keep snapping at him, shouting at him, sticking him in front of cbeebies and generally getting annopyed with the way he is when he is just being a toddler and not a particularly bad one either. I am also being horrible to dh, shouting at him, talking to him like he stupid, ppicking holes in everything. I can see what I am doing but I can't seem to get a grip on it. I think/hope it is sleep deprivation related rather than pnd as on the rare occasions I have had a good night I have felt completely different.
As a general rule I am one of those AP co-sleeping types. However, dd did not really do co-sleeping, she liked her own bit of space and so for the first 6 months slept in a sidecar. When co-sleeping she woke every 30-45 mins, had a 2 hour playtime between 12/1 and 2/3am and then woke for the day at 5am. I got more sleep during growth spurts as at least then she just fed and slept! We kicked her out at 6 months and things have improved a little in that she doesn't have playtime overnight!
We've just had SF so she is just getting back to "normal" after that but typically she goes to bed at 6.30 and wakes at 9 then pretty much hourly until 2.30/3 when she will sleep until 5 then sometimes she will go back to sleep until 6.30. The past couple of nights she hasn't been hungry at all, she falls asleep again the instant her mouth hits breast but if dh tries to settle her she screams and screams. Before the SF we were having more success with dh settling her so hopefully she will go back to that but I don't know how to get back to that without screaming.
I just have no idea what to do, everything seems to involve huge amounts of screaming (and we've tried NCSS methods).
I need to sleep, I need to get her sleeping as it is affecting my relationship with the whole family including her and I can't go on like that. I know there isn't a magic solution but I feel like I need someone to hold my hand and set out a plan for me to follow for a few nights.
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Advise me please before I lose all sense of reason!
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Indith · 25/07/2009 10:56
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