I'm really struggling in the evenings with my LO. DD2s never had an official bedtime, mostly because she always cluster fed in the evenings on the sofa with me, then I'd take her to bed at around 9.30 - we co-sleep.
In the past few weeks the cluster feeding has pretty much stopped and DH and I have been trying to follow a loose bedtime routine of giving her a bath at 6pm, then feed her, then put her down for a sleep in her cot or our bed around 7. She falls asleep for 5 minutes before waking up and screaming, I/ we comfort her with a mix of breastfeeding, dummy, patting, rocking, she falls asleep and then wakes up another 5 minutes later. Basically this pattern continues until about 8.30 when she finally conks out.
Should we just abandon the evening routine - is she too little? Or do we just need to stick at it longer?
What's normal at this stage? You'd think I'd remember what we did with DD1 but I can't!
Any tips very gratefully received. I need more than half an hour of childfree time in the evening otherwise I'm going to go mad.
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ejbab · 14/07/2009 11:54
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