Just wanted to post something positive. God knows, I've been on this board often enough since DS was born BUT we're now making progress and DS, who is 1 on Tuesday, is sleeping like an angel.
He used to wake up every 45mins-1 hour from the age of 4mo-6mo. It was terrible and I lost my temper now and again and me and DH argued like the proverbial cat and dog. I got loads of colds and looked like c**p.
We did the NCSS at 5mo and that helped. When he got to 6mo, we used PU/PD (the only bit of the Baby Whisperer I read). This also helped, hugely, as it gave us a calm, rational strategy for dealing with his wakings. We cut out night feeding at 9mo (just because he was eating LOADS during the day and getting quite fat!). This also, strangely, helped (after the first few nights of him being annoyed at not getting a feed). We also started a bed-bath-boob routine quite early on and he really 'gets' this now. That, and the 'lessons' from PU/PD (keep calm, be consistent, be compassionate) have worked for us.
My friend also told me that babies 'typically' have sleep regression periods at 4mo, 9mo and 14mo. This also helped, as we knew he wasn't just being 'bad' during these times. He's been like clockwork for these regressions so far - am bracing myself for the 14mo one! But they did pass and we got back to normal.
Don't get me wrong, we still have bad nights, but they're always for a reason: he's poorly, he's teething, he's got separation anxiety. But he does sleep through the night now, I can even put him into his cot AWAKE and he goes to sleep (I still sit with him til he does, but it takes 2 mins now as opposed to 2 hours).
I just wanted to let you all know, both to say thank you for all those people who offered advice and let me rant in my darkest hours - and to provide hope for other mums who, like me, just didn't want to use cc. For me, it has been about teaching my son how to sleep, that he doesn't need to be scared and that I will always be there for him when he needs me. I'm sure I'll be back on here at some point eating my own words but, for now at least, we're getting some sleep. xx
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Sufi · 06/11/2008 16:20
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