Hello. As soon as I put my one month old in Moses basket to sleep she either stays sleeping for a few minutes and then wakes or starts thrashing her arms about and legs so much that she eventually properly wakes crying and sounding angry. She will sleep perfectly fine on my chest, for hours, no problem. She slept fine for the first few weeks but then just got worse and worse and worse each night until she just won’t go down at all. She gets so worked up she ends up being sick. Until two nights ago she would go down after her feed for a couple of hours which made it bearable but the last couple of nights she doesn’t even do that. It’s the same during the day naps as well.
I’ve tried all sorts. Swaddling - she wriggles out of and gets frustrated with. Feeding and holding her upright for a while in case of reflux. Stroking her whilst she’s in her basket and placing my arm over her tummy for warmth/ reassurance. Winding her regularly during feeding. She will take a dummy which settles her for a while but then she spits it out. Regular bedtime routine.
I don’t know what to do and I’m guessing the answer is there’s not much I can do. She’s little and wants physical contact etc etc. But I can’t just hold her all night I’m worried she will get squished or something due to me being exhausted and falling to sleep. But if I put her down she ends up crying. I even tried to see how long she would cry for (which I didn’t enjoy at all but I was so tired and worried about falling to sleep with her on me), she just cried more and more and more I had to pick her up again.
I am guessing the thrashing is due to wind or reflux but I really don’t know. Or maybe she just gets so frustrated she wants to be back on me that leads her to thrash about and then be sick ...
Anyway just interested to hear if anyone else is going through this and any advice.
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One month thrashing and only sleeping on chest
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MissyJones80s · 07/03/2021 00:42
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