Hi all, have been a dad for a week now everything is great apart from sleep.
My son will not sleep unless laying on my chest which is a fantastic feeling apart from my lack of sleep. I am a night owl so will stay up with my son until 1-3am unless he wakes, in this time my wife will sleep until she needs to feed our son.
I then grab about 45 before he is crying in the crib and i need to soothe him again.
My wife will take him at 6am when i go on to get the bulk of my sleep. With 4 days paternity left im worried that we can not get him down.
Should we accept for now that we should adapt to him or just keep putting him in his crib? The latter saw me upping and downing him every 5 - 10 mins for an hour which was highly stressful and mentally exhausting.
Re crib we have a side bed one.
Have tried warming it, my t-shirt,white noise etc.
We refuse to co-sleep or entertain the idea?
I guess i want to know if i should go against my instinct and keep putting him down or just relent and accept he needs to sleep on me for the first few weeks / month of life??
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OnlyNexus · 08/10/2020 23:38
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