Hi!
My son is just 8 days old and my wife and I are struggling, in the evenings especially. I know it's only very early days so maybe we just need some reassurance?
From about 6pm until 11pm/12am he is extremely irritable and cries a lot and won't settle no matter what we do. It means that we are unable to eat or do anything during this time. We don't want to get into him into the routine of taking him for a drive (which worked the time we tried it except that he woke as soon as back in the house).
I'm concerned that he's sleeping too much during the day and this is making him irritable in the evenings. He is only awake for about 90 minutes after his feed in the morning at about 9am but for the rest of the time if he isn't feeding or having his nappy changed (which he always screams during) he is generally asleep until the 6 hour period of crying in the evening.
He's breastfeeding but we are having some troubles. He has a voracious appetite and is at a healthy weight but during the unsettled period seems constantly hungry. Our midwife has suggested feeding him more often during the day as we were feeding him 3 hourly or on demand. He sleeps well after about 11pm. He'll fall asleep for 4/5 hours then have a feed, then sleep for another 3/4 hours after that.
How much stimulation should a week old have? We play with him in the mornings while he's awake for the 90 minutes but the rest of the time he sleeps inbetween feeds. He often falls asleep whilst feeding. One of the big problems is that he will fall asleep fine after a feed in my wife's arms (or mine) but as soon as we try to put him down in the cot he just starts screaming.
We are finding it so hard going and just wondered whether this was normal or should we be waking him and stimulating him more during the day to make him more tired during the trouble period in the evening?
Sorry for the long post! Any help appreciated.
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BritishBeef · 01/10/2007 15:32
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