I'm desperately in need of some advice.
My 5 year old has become a nightmare at bedtime. If I put her to bed she insists that I sit on her bed until she falls asleep. If I don't she constantly calls out, gets up & starts to cry.
If my husband tries to put her to bed she screams the house down, it sounds like he is murdering her. She roars and cries, tonight she nearly threw up she was getting so worked up. She woke her little sister up deliberately because we told her we wouldn't be sitting with her until she went to sleep.
We are a breaking point, my husband & I have ended up arguing again about it, I'm too soft with her apparently & I think he shouts too much at her. Tonight he threatened to walk out, he can't handle it anymore. I actually thought it might be a good thing because I'm frightened he might really loose his temper with her some night.
We've tried talking to her about why she's screaming & why she wants us to sit with her but we just get no answer or she puts on a baby voice & says 'I just want my mum'.
I'm at my wits end, I really do think my husbands going to leave if it carries on. I really can't cope with it anymore, I try my best to be calm all the time but tonight even I lost it
On top of it tonight a neighbour popped over to collect something and asked if everything was ok because she could hear our daughter 'again' .
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Superba21 · 18/08/2017 21:41
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