Hello,
I have posted a couple of times before about sleep and naps. We are currently suffering with extremely early morning rising which leaves all of us ratty and overtired!
My 10 month old is a happy sweet little boy when he has slept well, but if he wakes up early from a nap (typically 30 mins at the moment) or from the night, he is clingy, whiney and just wants to BF. His sleepy cue is lunging for my boobs. He eats 3 full meals a day plus snacks and feeds 3-5 times a day generally after naps. We have recently sleep trained using CC because I was at my wits end; up 4-5 times a night BF him to sleep with less and less success. This has worked well and he goes to sleep with minimal grumbles between 7.00 and 7.15, waking once in the night. He is awake for the day at 4.45 but NOT happy. I tend to feed him at this time in an attempt to get him off for a bit longer, but at this time his sleep drive has gone to zero and we end up coming down bleary eyed to attempt some sort of play before breakfast.
I feel like letting him nap when he wants to is going to reinforce the earlywaking?
He naps in his buggy on the porch with a black out shade thing. I can't face the tears that would be involved in putting him in his cot just yet. We will do it, but after our holiday next week and when we have a more established plan re. timings.
My question is, how do I break out of the early morning wakings whilst attempting to keep nap times optimal?
I vaguely attempt the 2-3-4 thing which he can just about manage, but I'd say he's on the 'immature' end of the sleep durations and is really only just managing with 2 naps. If I try to put him down at 8-8.30 he sometimes only naps for 30 mins or so. He just went to sleep completely independently (normally I need to do a bit of gentle rocking) at 7am. It seems to be pot luck as to whether he makes it into the next sleep cycle. We still sometimes have a 10 min 'saviour' car nap at about 4.30 which gets us through til 6.30 when bedtime routine starts.
I feel we may need a bit of a schedule! We are going on holiday to France on Sunday and thought we might be able to use the hour time difference to our advantage in some way, maybe by pushing bedtime back a bit?
Any advice or help much appreciated!
Claire
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Timing problems - 4.45am waking 10 month old ?still needs 3 naps?
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Claiiire · 30/07/2017 07:30
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