I had some really good advice on the infant feeding thread about my son fussing at my breast, so I thought I'd try here for some advice on a sleep issue we're having.
Bit of background....
Our boy is almost 3 months. He's been a generally good natured baby so far - he has his moments, obviously, but is generally easy to settle when he does. He is EBF and has gained weight very well.
He likes sleeping on me mostly, but I'm trying to wean him off it a little, which is going ok. For his daytime naps I can usually rock him to sleep in 5 or 10 minutes and then I hold him for a bit before transferring him to his cot or pushchair. I'll still have him sleep on me for at least one of his naps, just as I know it's good quality sleep he's getting so I won't drop that until I feel he's ready. He likes sleeping in the sling too, so I'll have him sleep in there if I need to to get out and about.
He's a very alert baby. He came out of the dozy newborn phase very quickly. He's never fallen to sleep in his pushchair or car seat, or independently in any way (he just likes to look around). He never seems to be drowsy. I know some babies are just like this, and I know it will pass eventually. I'm happy as long as he's happy, but it can be quite inconvenient sometimes...! Oh how jealous I am of those mums who's babies just effortlessly fall asleep in their pushchairs...
I try to limit his awake time to one hour, so he doesn't get over tired. During the day it's generally fine, but the last week or so he's been very fretful at bedtime... it started off with just a bit of shouting and fussing when rocking him... now it's a full on purple-faced scream fest, for an hour or so. My partner and I try to stay calm and rock him, but he fights very hard - he does totally rigid, kicking and screaming. It must be awful for him and I worry it'll be doing him some damage :(
His overnight sleep is good - he generally wakes once for a feed sleeps very soundly. It's just getting him there without the battle...!
Sorry for the waffle... Any advice much appreciated.
Thanks!
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3 month old screaming at bedtime
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amelie427 · 02/07/2017 22:50
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