DS is six months and a good napper and has them in his cot. He wasn't always but in the last month to six weeks he's become a great snoozer. I decided his cot was the best place as he was always snoozing on me and while I loved the cuddles it wasn't exactly practical!
Anyway I noticed about a month ago there were times he just refused to settle downstairs and as soon as I put him in bed he would. But there are times he was over tired and grumpy and I was far too quick to run to his room or to get him up. So I started setting the timer on my phone for four minutes, then five etc. Typically I had to go up twice and he'd nod off. He's usually looking around and then settles. Today he was crying because he was just so tired he was a nightmare! He cried the whole time for five minutes until the last 30 seconds where he went quiet and when I looked at the monitor and he'd fallen asleep. I feel horrible that he cried, and I hate leaving him to. I'm telling myself he was just shattered and needed to calm down and sleep - but it doesn't stop me feeling sad. I'm not going to cause him any issue am I? He wasn't there for ages and he was crying for four and a half minutes if that. He has his comforter and is now fast asleep with his arms above his head peaceful as you like.
I'm not a horrible mum am I??
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fruityb · 08/03/2017 13:24
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