Hi ,
I'm a first time mum looking for some advice about my 3 month old.
At the moment it takes about 3 hours to get her to go to sleep at night. I used to feed her to sleep and go to bed with her- we cosleep. But recently she won't feed to sleep. So now we do bath, feed and rock to sleep, but often the minute I put her down (even if I hold her until she is fully asleep) she wakes up- even if I lie next to her and cuddle her. Then I offer her another feed (I breastfeed) to see if that will send her off- often she gets super sleepy nearly asleep but then wakes all of a sudden. So we have to repeat the whole process again rocking her. Sometimes we have to resort to taking her for a walk in the carrier as it's the only sure thing to work, once she is properly asleep we gently get her out, she does often wake but will go back to sleep with a little milk. But this obviously can't be a long term solution.
We try to get up at a similar time each day around seven and she naps around 3-4 hours each day- sometimes I rock her, sometimes she falls asleep after a feed and sometimes out in the carrier. She has never been very good at sleeping on her own and although I do try to put her down for naps she always wakes (we tried hot water bottles my tshirts etc). Then we aim for bedtime between 7 and 8- we try to avoid naps after 5.
I am feeling very lost as to how this will improve and wold appreciate any one who has any advice
So many people say this is common to me but I feel like other mums can pop their babies in their crib for bedtime and they go to sleep. I really worry that I've done things wrong.
Thanks
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3 month old won't go to sleep at night
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Faye2016 · 17/11/2016 08:13
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