I'm really struggling to deal with this, because DS1 has always been a good sleeper, but since a bout of illness in the spring he's started to have problems falling asleep and we're now in the situation where he's anxious as bedtime approaches and then he cannot fall asleep. He's just come wandering downstairs at 10.15pm, having been in bed, trying to go to sleep since 8.45pm.
Nothing we've tried seems to help - he has a relaxing routine (bath, story, reading to himself, light out usually by 8.30pm), he has some Rescue Remedy sleep spray (which seems to do nothing), and Rescue Remedy pastilles (ditto). We've tried counting sheep, visualising a relaxing, happy scene, talking him through relaxing his body for sleep, talking through his worries with him, and giving his worries to a toy.
What are his worries? Wetting the bed. He last wet the bed about two years ago, so this is irrational and we've told him it doesn't matter even if he did wet the bed, yet he can't stop going back and forth to the bathroom fifty times. I've tried reasoning with him - it doesn't work. And then, of course, there is the worry that he won't fall asleep - which he then doesn't, and between the getting up and down to go the loo, worrying, crying, hyperventilating, he's about as far from relaxed and ready for sleep as its possible to be!
Please, if anyone has been through this, can you help? DH and I are on the verge of asking for him to be referred to a child psychologist, because we're both at the end of our tether and out of ideas.
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HELP! 8-year-old DS's anxiety stopping him falling asleep
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juneau · 03/07/2016 22:38
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