My lovely baby girl hates going to sleep. I know she is tired for nap/bedtimes as she is furiously rubbing her eyes and yawning but she is fighting sleep so much. She used to go to sleep 'independently' in her cot but now screams so much at sleep times/rattles the bars of her cot that I generally rub her back until she is asleep.
I won't go into her schedule because I'm 99% sure it's not a scheduling issue. But I am worn out trying to get her to sleep three times a day (2 naps and bedtime). If she sleeps on the go (in the sling, she is very alert and won't go off in the buggy) she gets awful short naps and gets exhausted. So we do naps at home and once she goes off she GENERALLY takes ok naps length-wise, but the whole getting her to sleep thing feels like an awful treadmill three times a day, every day. As nap times approach I feel extremely anxious. If I try and talk to my parents about it they just say "oh just keep her up, she's obviously not tired" and don't understand that this makes her overtired and makes getting her to sleep even worse. I don't feel I can talk to other mum friends because everyone has their cross to bear and I feel my situation is trivial, yet I feel so tested by it, more than anything else I've ever experienced. And my partner understands that I'm frustrated but I get the feeling he thinks I'm overreacting.
Not helping that her dad is currently on 10 of 10 working days so I haven't had a break for a while. I've lost my cool a few times and yesterday I shouted out in frustration and she got all scared and burst into tears. Of course I feel like a terrible mother. I feel like I am a patient person and have been being patient since she was born but I am absolutely out of patience right now. I have friends who have babies who apparently wave goodnight and go to sleep cooing and gurgling. Not my girl who rages against the dying of the light!!
How do you cope when you are being tested like this? I know there are many more similar challenges ahead (toddler years!!) and that I need to learn to accept that I can't be in control of another (small, strong-willed) person. And also any tips for winding down a crazy excited baby also gratefully received!
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chloe31 · 16/05/2016 19:40
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