I don't know where to put this post. DD (4) wakes every night (usually less than two hours after falling asleep) shouting, crying, saying things like 'take this' and holding out her hands which are empty. Each episode lasts about five minutes which seems eternal when its happening. I don't think she sees me but does seem to get some sort of comfort from me being there shushing and stroking her head. This will happen a number of times before she actually wakes up fully and says she wants to come to my bed. Once in my bed, she falls asleep immediately and sleeps well for the remainder of the night. When she is sleeping beside me, she grinds her teeth a lot. I can't bear the noise and end up putting my hands over my ears to try to block it out until I fall asleep. Her teeth seem ok to me but she definitely has a small undefined and probably recessed chin.
In the morning she doesn't remember waking at all but despite eleven hours plus (admittedly some of which is poor quality sleep), she wakes exhausted. She often says she is too tired to get up or says that after breakfast she will go for a nap again. When she gets up, she says she is too tired to walk/could I carry her to the kitchen but generally after ten minutes or so, she 'wakes' and doesn't mention returning to bed again.
This is a nightly occurrence. Is there anything I can do to reassure her during the day. Are they due to insecurity of some sort? She is a much loved and lovely little girl who we simply adore. I hate that this happens to her and I don't like having to physically lift her up in the mornings because she is still tired. Will she grow out of it? I'm presuming she will need orthodontic treatment when she is older (everyone in both sides of the family needed treatment). Will this 'fix' her chin/pull it out so it is more aligned? In turn will this fix the teeth grinding? I don't want her getting self conscious about this when she gets older and if there is anything I can do to help now if necessary?
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looki · 08/05/2016 02:06
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