Ds2 is 9 weeks old. He has silent reflux which is helped by ranitidine but also really struggles with wind / colic.
During the day he generally naps in the sling but he is getting increasingly overtired in the evenings. By that point I'm knackered from wearing him all day, chasing my toddler about and generally doing errands and housework.
For the last couple of evenings we have given him a dummy out of desperation to calm him down in the evening. He seems to like it but I am so conflicted about using it. I never gave DS1 a dummy, was very anti-dummy to the point of just being stubborn about it in the end. DS1 used me as a dummy and it was exhausting. However at least he would feed to sleep and sleep on my chest and (eventually) stay asleep when transferred most of the time. DS2 falls asleep on the boob but within a couple of minutes his eyes Spring open and there is no chance of him sleeping. Sadly, he doesn't just stay asleep on my chest anymore which I would love at this age!!
So, my worry is that
A) I don't like dummies
B) the idea of him having to have a dummy to sleep fills me with dread and then the idea of weaning from it is even worse.
3) and most importantly- He has dropped percentiles recently and HV and GP are concerned about him dropping anymore (as am I obviously). I'm worried that as he doesn't seem to be a particularly hungry baby (DS1 was a perma-latch baby) the dummy could stop him feeding / suckling as much as he needs.
Please give me some good advice about all this, I'm really anxious giving him the dummy and would definitely prefer not to use it but it does work.
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cherrylola · 20/02/2016 07:57
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