DD feeds til sleepy, then I pop her in the cot and she's goes to sleep ok. Sometimes I sit in her room (pitch black) whilst she sods about but she will go off by herself.
However, she wakes up sporadically every night. Sometimes it's as 10pm, it's mostly around midnight, and occasionally 2:30am.
I tend to take her straight into bed with me where she wants to feed and she will then wake a further 2-3 times to be fed, before waking for the day at 6:30/6:45. She now sits up and messes around for ages so I know co-sleeping has got to stop.
I'm knackered. I know I've made a rod for my own back but don't know how to now break it.
I've never done controlled crying and she is a velcro baby so I know she will be hysterical. But something's got to change.
I could feed her back to sleep when wakes and pop her in the cot but I feel that might just be delaying breaking another habit. Plus it's cold at night now and I'll be sat up for ages and suspect I'll cave and take her back into bed with me for conveniences sake.
So how do I do controlled crying? Go in to soothe her in 2min increments? How long do I stay in there for? Does she need to be calm before I leave the room again? I've never "walked out" on her so she will go nuts and I am concerned about asking DH and other DC.... I could sit in there and do gradual retreat instead I guess but I'm wondering if a gentler approach will just drag it on and actually something a bit more hard and fast will get the message across a bit better and quicker.
Ugh. Any words of wisdom or tips to share please??
Am at the end of my tether. I need more than 3 hours consecutive sleep!!
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Controlled crying for 16mth old night wakings?
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fishalive · 29/11/2015 18:55
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